Adoption

Churches in Six States Can Radically Change the World

Churches in Six States Can Radically Change the World

In recent years, significant focus has been directed towards states and localities hit the hardest by this nation’s opiod crisis. Per capita, there are more children available in the foster care system in opioid-impacted states. But in terms of sheer numbers of kids available and aging out of the foster care system, concentrated efforts in six large states would address more than a third of all foster care cases in the country.

One benefit of visiting a new church as a unique family

One benefit of visiting a new church as a unique family

As I left that meeting, it struck me: changing churches as a unique family is hard, but the same elements that make us stand out also make others notice us more easily.

The obligation of church leaders who promote adoption

The obligation of church leaders who promote adoption

Are we as church called to care for orphans? You bet. Are we expected to use the gifts and talents entrusted to us to support families who respond to such a noble calling? They should expect nothing less!

Does love heal all wounds from childhood trauma?

Does love heal all wounds from childhood trauma?

And while we pray for healing to come and trust that it will one day, here or in heaven, we keep on loving. Because that’s what our kids need, and that’s what our Father has modeled for us as parents (and as church leaders partnering with families like mine).

Please don’t say “all kids do that” to adoptive and foster families

Please don’t say “all kids do that” to adoptive and foster families

Please, don’t say “all kids do that,” because even if behaviors look the same, that doesn’t mean they are the same for our kids from hard places.

DSM-5: Rethinking Reactive Attachment Disorder

DSM-5: Rethinking Reactive Attachment Disorder

In early 2016, when I read through the new criteria for Reactive Attachment Disorder, I found myself hard pressed to think of any condition in which so great a disconnect exists between the way it is defined by academicians and community-based clinicians.